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Originally Posted by AGDee
He still talks about the home made spaghetti sauce I made him for his birthday in his dorm room 40 years ago so... yeah.
I made him an omelette yesterday morning with ham, bacon and a 16 year aged wisconsin cheddar and he was all over that. He went on and on about it all day.
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Damn! You must really can cook if he went back to some 40 year old spaghetti sauce LOL.
When a woman can cook, that does something to me. It makes me like her more, so I guess that saying is true. I think that’s true with most or all dudes to a degree.
@ CG, I guess you’re an exception to the rule since you can’t cook worth a damn Lol. But you know what I said about that. Your situation also has a rule.
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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy
Thanks, man. For me, it wasn’t about protecting myself, I’ve never been drawn to anyone else. Just my wife. The way I see it — as a husband, it’s my responsibility to protect my wife’s place, to cover her so she never feels disrespected or competed with.
When she showed me what was going on, I didn’t take it personally, I took it seriously. That woman wasn’t just offering food, she was testing a boundary. I shut it down because I’m not leaving cracks for disrespect to walk through.
I didn’t embarrass her, but I made sure there was no doubt, no invitations, no open doors, and no chance for confusion. For me, it’s all about being accountable to God for how I honor my wife and guard what He gave me.
That’s how I protect peace in my home. That’s how I protect her heart.
That said, I may not have caught the early signs from that woman, without my wife bringing it to my attention, but I know I’d have had sense enough to know not to accept a plate of food from her. Regardless. Hayle to the naw! I’m not stupid. 😂
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Call me stupid then because I’d have told her to bring me a plate, not knowing LOL. For real.