[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by Phrozen Sands

Lol so it’s definitely a thing then. Chicks are slick.


LMAO! She caught her ass. I get it though, I wouldn’t have caught it. Knowing me, I’d have accepted the plate of food offer not knowing. I didn’t know that was a thing until ol girl said it and what y’all are saying here.

After your wife told you what she saw, you shot that chick down fast Lol. You didn’t leave ambiguity or room for her to try again. And you were kind enough not to embarrass her, but clear enough that she wouldn’t misunderstand. I like that in you, PB.

Thanks, man. For me, it wasn’t about protecting myself, I’ve never been drawn to anyone else. Just my wife. The way I see it — as a husband, it’s my responsibility to protect my wife’s place, to cover her so she never feels disrespected or competed with.

When she showed me what was going on, I didn’t take it personally, I took it seriously. That woman wasn’t just offering food, she was testing a boundary. I shut it down because I’m not leaving cracks for disrespect to walk through.

I didn’t embarrass her, but I made sure there was no doubt, no invitations, no open doors, and no chance for confusion. For me, it’s all about being accountable to God for how I honor my wife and guard what He gave me.

That’s how I protect peace in my home. That’s how I protect her heart.

That said, I may not have caught the early signs from that woman, without my wife bringing it to my attention, but I know I’d have had sense enough to know not to accept a plate of food from her. Regardless. Hayle to the naw! I’m not stupid. 😂