[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by Phrozen Sands

^^^ LMAO! You never posted this, PB. What happened? So it is a thing then. Honestly, I think dude would have cheated on her regardless though. That’s what I told her.

Yeah, it is a thing in the sense that some women notice it as an early sign or signal. But you’re 100% right, if a man cheats, the issue is his heart, character, and choices. The woman offering the plate of food didn’t make him betray his partner, he chose to betray her on his own. If he was going to be unfaithful, something else would’ve opened the door eventually.

When I lived in Michigan a woman at my job in my department liked me, fully knowing I was married. After offering to bring me a plate of something she made, I just told her kindly, “Thank you, that’s thoughtful, but my wife takes care of me, I’m all set.”

She stopped after that. I’m not sure if you were around but we’ve had this “plate of food” discussion in D&R.