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Hi there
I totally agree with all the previous posts. In my opinion you should NOT extend this girl a bid if she has even implied the things listed above. In my opinion I would give a legay extra consideration in a situation let's say tehre are two PNM's rushing who are great women, they both seem very interested and impressive..... well if you have quota and can olny take one of these women, you may give a tiny heads up to the legacy.
But..... this does not seem to be the case, why should you take away a spot from a great potential sister to give to this girl??? Tat does not make sense. She will only hurt your sorority in the long run. If her sister is an alumnae she should be somewhat mature and Im sure upset at first, will come around to understand. I'm sure if the shoe was on the other side what would the alumna due????? Ask her that, but I'm sure she will come around. Maybe there is another sorority on campus that her sister will find "good enough" to show some respect too.
Sorry if I seem harsh but just my two cents, a rush(legacy or not) should never be given more consideration than any sister in the sisterhood, local national or regional.
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