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Originally posted by MSSTCY1
One of our alumni, told her sister tonight that we were not going to give her a bid and she flipped out... like really flippped out... we have had problems with this sister in the past, and I don't know what to do. I hold a very big posistion in the sorority. While I am not presisdent I do have a say in what goes on. I am worried, as are many E-board memebers as to what to do. the alumni in question is very angry with us. All of the responces seem to agree. So HOW do we explain our decision?????
PLEASE HELP!!!
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I agree with AOPi alum's advice - meet with the alum again and explain why her sister isn't getting a bid. Also point out that since your bylaws don't say anything about bidding legacies, you are under no obligation to give her a bid. Then tell the alum that since her sister has come right out and said that she has no interest in being in a sorority and would never pledge, there's no reason to give her a bid because she would be taking a bid away from somebody who actually wants it. Good luck!