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Originally posted by TrueGreekLove
For those of you that have dated greek men, do you find them to be any different than men who are non-greek? Is it different to date a greek man if you are greek yourself versus being a non greek dating a greek man? What are the pros and cons? I am just asking because generally I have found greek men to be very immature...and then there have been those that do a 360 on you after becoming greek and discovering that there are fraternity groupies out there...they are a completely different person after they cross!
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Excellent conversation! In my experience with my current bf, we started dating before he went Greek. At first, I felt like he did the "360" in a way, and others could kind of see it too. Not so much that he "found fraternity groupies" like you mentioned, but he had a complete personality change, so I sort of had trouble adjusting.
After countless long hours of talking and stuff, we worked everything out. I realized that maybe it wasn't so much of a personality change, but maybe a part of his personality that i hadn't seen before when he's with his brothers. We stayed together and things have been super great since
