You should not feel obligated to give this woman a bid. If recruitment is still in progress, try having a sister ask her why she is interested in the first place. If her only reason is that she's a legacy, then she has no genuine interest in joining the organization or in helping in any way. Do not treat her as a legacy, treat her as any other potential (that goes for the other legacy too). Try not to make them feel as though they have no worries about receiving a bid while not discouraging their interest, should they have one. Good luck!
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