Oooh, I hate hearing of cliques like that! So childish!
I am looking forward to hearing what happens...and I am sure Penguintrax is giving you good advice..
My experience in our local Alumnae Panhellenic was mostly for the Reference Information Committee (RIC) - I was KD's member, but it disbanded...seems no one had "in's" to the local high schools anymore.
BTW, don't forget to check out the NPC website:
http://www.npcwomen.org
The more you know about the group, the better!