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Wow, it sounds like you are in one heck of a situation. I don't envy you, but I sure can relate very well. I knew several girls in one of the houses on my campus when I rushed, and it was difficult because they were super nice to me and I didn't want to disappoint them if I didn't choose their house when I rushed. Rush is a trying time for everyone involved, and when it got down to the last day for me I was on the phone with my mom crying because I couldn't choose which houses to pref since there were three that I really loved. (One of which my friends were in.)
My mom, knowing that I can be a little over dramatic(and who isn't when they are 17) said to choose the one where I felt most at home and go from there. So I did....and for the other two, undemocratic though it may be since they both had the same pluses, I flipped a coin.
Pref night for me was insane, I went to one of my coin flips first and I loved them, I was so convinced that was where I wanted to be. Then I went to my comfy house, and wasn't so sure anymore. In the end, I ended up where I should have been in the first place. (And it turned out my rush counselor was an AOII as well, who knew?)
Regardless of what happens, I know that you will be a benefit to any chapter that you decide to join. Best of luck with your decision, and remember to follow your heart.
Roses,
Suzanne
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