At my chapter, we only have one sweetheart a year and she is voted on by the brothers in the chapter. When we find out who it is, we all get dressed up in our coats and ties and go to her house or apartment and formally ask her to be our chapter sweetheart. At this point she is usually starting to cry or unable to speak, (I'll never understand why women do that...)and then we cirlce around her and serenade(sp?) her. The girl is mostly chosen by how much she supports our chapter, i.e. during rush, coming to intramural events, etc.
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