Well said mgdzkm433. Prettygyrl, in a way I understand you in regards to your bitterness about how whites treated us in the past, but you can't dwell on the past. I'm not saying forget about it. What our ancestors went through should never be forgotten. However, the healing should take place now. We shouldn't spend our entire lives scarred and wounded. Let's get up, dust ourselves off, and move on. Now moving on doesn't mean jumping in bed with a white person, but it does mean not continuing to let the past hinder your future. Particularly when it comes to love.
There really are some good whites out there. Don't judge someone on the actions of their ancestors. Judge them for their own actions. How would you like it if a white person mistreated you because in the past they had been robbed by a black person? You'd be pissed. Well you're doing the same thing.
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