[shadokat]

I will be the first person to say I don't necessarily understand nonbinary. It doesn't mean that because we don't understand it, we should immediately dismiss it as wrong.

That being said, if the chapter selected this person for membership and they have been a member for a year, why would Chi Omega national want to get involved in it? It's just asking to stir up a hornet's nest that needn't be touched. Clearly the chapter wanted them as a member, and they wanted to be a member. Completely different from the KKG case.