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Okay, I come at this issue in a different way. As a recruitment advisor I've been on a campus where crying and sobbing during pref became a competition between chapters. Honestly you'd think the women were attending a funeral, not a preference party. It became a source of pride for each sorority when they had each and every member weeping. This tended to freak out some of the pnms, and I didn't blame them.
Crying during pref is fine, I did it and still do, but the focus of preference is on your pnm. It should be about how much you feel for your sisterhood and much your chapter wants this experience for other women that you've gotten to know during rush. If you cry naturally during this moment, fine, but don't force it, that is miserable and pnms can absolutely tell.
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