Pref & Crying
I feel that it is 100% fine to cry and/or show emotion at pref parties.
I am an Alpha Xi Delta legacy, but I am an AOII for many reasons. I am about to become alum, but I can still remember the day I put AOII in the #1 slot and AZD in the #2 slot.
When I went to AOII's pref party, I knew that I was where I was supposed to be. I could tell that the girls speaking really meant every word they said. Ultimately, that is what made my final decision. Since AOII showed emotion and sincerity, I choose them, and I have not had one regret since.
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