during our prefs round here at UF we give the girls rings made of pearls (not real..it's elastic stringed with small pearl beads to wear during prefs..then put on the table during the ceremony).. and our tradition is you wear the ring 3 times in your life 1. during prefs 2. during initiation and 3. when you get married. I heard that this is a national SK tradition but not all chapters do it. Sisters from Beta Tau here at UF have worn them on their hands when they were married, had them sewn into their veils.. and this June one of my sisters is getting married, and she can't wear it on her finger due to this jewish tradition, so she's having it sewn into her dress. This is a very special tradition
