Hello everyone! I could really use some advice...10-15% of the sorority has dropped in a span of 3 months. I can name over a dozen other members who are considering dropping or want to drop but are toughing it out until they graduate in the spring...
...[E]ntire groups of girls actively dislike each other based on their clashing personalities and past conflicts.
Frankly, it is verging on bullying in some cases.
Frankly I would even be OK with everyone just tolerating or being cordial to each other–we don’t all need to be best friends–but, we don’t have that.
It would be one thing if girls were just simply not that close, but too many of my sisters are just cruel to each other.
Something’s got to give.
Thankfully I have made some lovely friends, but I worry that our chapter is on the verge of destroying itself in the next 5-10 years.
We have been on campus for
decades and we are one of the larger chapters of our organization, so HQ doesn't even seem concerned.
When I and other members have raised concerns to our president and VPs, they’ve been brushed off.
Advisors have been no help.
Other chapters have been no help.
Members aren’t even wearing letters around campus–hell,
they’re lying and saying they’re in other organizations!
Any advice is welcomed with open arms. Thank you.
