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I'm with PM_Mama.....
Our chapter would work soooo hard and fight and cry and be up so late and have classes, etc.... that we were all cranky and tired by the time pref set up came around. We always had a candlepass before hand to get us "in the mood", so to speak. (I admit, sometimes these were half hearted).
Most of the sisters only cried when they were super close to the PNM. The REAL crying came in when were in the ceremony. We tweaked the words so they really fit us as people, us as sisters, and as a chapter. The ceremony was always so beautiful that we knew that we could get through anything together.
Pref was almost about us and working together and all that we'd been through. The PNMs were *almost* an afterthought.
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