If I may make an analogy: joining a GLO is kind of like learning to ride a bike. When you begin as a new member, you have "training wheels." Your big is there to hold your hand, so to speak, and everyone wants to meet you and take you out. When you become initiated, it's like taking those training wheels off and learning to ride with the "big kids" (active members). It can take time, adjusting to being an active, but if once you become initiated you start loosing all those people who used to "ride with you" along the way, then maybe your sisterhood/brotherhood needs a little strengthening.
Hope that made some semblance of sense...
[This message has been edited by LeslieAGD (edited May 31, 2001).]
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