wow, that does sound really bad. i can tell you, it's NOT like that for all greek groups. during rush, i hope and hope that the girls i really like will get in, so they can "have what i have" in a sense. i am practically moved to tears on pref night (the final night of formal rush) because i feel so lucky to have been chosen for my group, knowing all i know now as a sister. not everyone is lucky enough to be in a group with a good dynamic. and things aren't always what they seem, from a rushee's perspective.
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