Matt, I am not sure if you are talking abour trying to affilieat with a NIC Fraternity but if you are, try the Alum Thread on GC!
It is easier in someways to join than the Soroitys!
What School and where?
If you show an interest and will be willing to work as say an Advisor you can be Initiated but it is not a hit and miss thing for LXA!
Our New Hi Pi ,Advisor is a member of the Faucitally who was inititated but also has a Son who is now his Brother!
He has become as enthralled with the Fraternity as I have been since I founded it! I am # 1, He is # 599 and we are about the same age!
You missed something by not being a Fraternity Man but you can grow still alot and give of yourself if you so desire!
