Mrs. Silzel,
Thanks so much for your post. It clarified many questions that I had from the Times' pin collector article. The "exclusivity" comment definitely raised my eyebrows because I couldn't imagine any Panhellenic woman saying such a thing. I knew there had to be more to it than that!
I hope that the NY Times has the gumption to publish your letter at some point. Your
real words deserve a chance to be read.
Fraternally,
dzrose93