Quote:
Originally Posted by 33girl
Ummm....I advise you to look at your national policies. Unless they had their membership terminated by the fraternity, they ARE alumnae.
|
This is something you seem to be missing. As alumni of your chapter, they should be welcome to come back when they want to. Our organizations encourage membership for life. It's truly sad that you can't see that distinction.
Perhaps empathy is needed here. They probably wish they were still enrolled. They may have had to leave for financial reasons or other issues out of their control. To add to that pain by telling them they are no longer welcome at a place that feels like home to them is pretty crappy.
What does your brotherhood really mean to you?