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I am picking up a vibe that you might have missed the hint that most women who join through AI have some connection to the organization they join. The process is not in any way like a collegian going through formal recruitment.

"Can I ask about the process it would take to become one from each org or is that a bad idea as well? Is it because it's similar to membership selection? " This concerns me, because it appears that you are shopping for any org that would allow you to join immediately. That's not how it is supposed to work.

A cousin of mine is married to a retired naval officer. Her husband was the commander of a squadron. I know that both the officers wives and the enlisted wives had get togethers often and supported each other, especially when the husbands were at sea. My cousin's role as the commander's wife was similar to a sorority president, and these women definitely had a sisterhood, even though this was not a sorority. Isn't there something similar for you?