[PM_Mama00]

Every year, before Rush, our chapter has it's lil problems. During Pref we go around and say what Phi Mu has given us. Last year we were practicing before the first round, so that no 2 sisters said the same thing. Picture this-- 15 minutse before 1st round comes thru.... 30 girls bawling their eyes out! Somehow our sisterhood became SOOO strong at that moment. We all gathered and had a huge group hug, and it was the first time in a year and a half that I TRULY felt the sisterhood. We laugh about it to this day. We have a few tears towards the end of Pref all the time when we sing Sisters. It's our most beautiful Phi Mu song, and gives me the chills all the time.

I think tears are ok. I've heard from girls that came in that they find those sororities to be more into their sisterhood, if they have a few tears.