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TXDG, I understand your thoughts but not every situation is as cut and dried as you outline. There are many variables to every recruitment situation, including those which I am not comfortable outlining on-line. It is just not true that this is her only option of ever being in a sorority on this campus and I have several other experienced advisers who know more details who have a different opinion. That being said, I, and my daughter, understand the challenges associated with all of the choices and we appreciate everyone's thoughts. She will make the best of whatever decision she makes. Btw, she didn't, and never would, cry at the house on bid day or "make a stink" to the advisor. And, I am also a DG from Texas so not completely clueless about all of this. Further, I would really hope that if an error in information is pointed out to a faculty adviser, that adviser would respect my daughter's confidentiality and try to help her navigate through the situation and options the best she can. As well as to explain to anyone with a "need to know" what happened and how it impacted her. If the adviser does not, then we have even bigger problems. Thanks again everyone.
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