I think it epens on the person the chapter the pref etc. For example I know tons of pnm's who pledged an Alpha Phi chapter because they didn't cry while other chapters on that campus get really emotional. I have seen the opposite happen.
Really I think that the pnm is finding a home and it has less to do with the tears and more to do with the connection she has found at the house. I don't think I am describing my thoughts really well. Basically it is like when you find a match you look at the alike things and not the things that don't make you part of that group.
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