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My chapter had this discussion last week. About half of us felt freaked out by crying as PNMs, but the others felt that since we didn't show much emotion last year, our pref ceremony seemed cold and unfeeling. So we concluded that some tears are fine, because it is an emotional day, but we don't want to just all be bawling uncontrollably because, well, it's freaky. But see, our recruitment week is a week long, so it's different that your situation. I don't know...I guess it's up to you all, but if you feel like shedding a few tears, I don't think you should be ashamed to do it.
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