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I predict that ending this relationship will be a nightmare. These guys don't typically go peacefully. The physical distance between you can be a blessing. You probably can't be friends. He will likely start blowing up your phone with text messages and calls. Be prepared to block him. If he continues to stalk, intimidate, or harass you, there are resources like the YWCA or women's shelters which can point you in the direction you need to go in order to get a restraining order. A lot of victims of abuse find it easier to go back to their abuser than to separate. I would advise you to do this now. Once you're living together and he has power and control over your finances, living space, children, it becomes much more difficult.[/QUOTE]
Not sure if I'm doing this quote thing right but Kevin says exactly what I was mentioning in another post--when my daughter realized it was time to break up with her boyfriend, it was UGLY, and thank goodness he was six hours away. Even so, she turned off his ability to see her location. We NEVER would have seen this coming, as we all loved him and knew he loved her. But the more distance she had, the more she could see the controlling/manipulating behaviors and those REALLY became apparent when she decided to leave him.
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