Best: Walking into the house, talking with sisters I had seen outside of class and just feeling at home. Feeling like people were evaluating me for me, not my clothes. Getting asked back to 5 out of 6 possible pref parties.
I know that sounds vain, but when you have spent a lot of life feeling like a reject it really means a lot!!
Worst: Being made to feel embarassed of what I was wearing. Getting a feeling that a sorority I did like, with a lot of my dorm mates in, was just a little too "gung ho" for me and knowing I couldn't pledge there. Being led over to the refreshment area over & over - think the scene in Animal House with Flounder and Pinto and the foreign students.