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In addition to the "control freak" comments above, I would like to add that when you truly love someone, you want to support them, do what's best for them, and advocate participation in activities that fulfill them as a human being. The fact that he refuses to support you or advocate for your participation in something that is making you a stronger person demonstrates his lack of immaturity, his wanting what's best for you, and, to an extent, his love for you. I'd step back from the relationship and give him some time to grow up. Either he'll come to realize how much he loves you and wants to support you OR you'll both realize that the other person really isn't the best person to bring out the best in each other. It can be a hard road, but if he's not the person for you, then there is probably someone out there who is a better fit and who is potentially the love of your life. Good luck!
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