Can a rec hurt you?
I start rush in two weeks and was lucky enough to know a few wonderful greek women well enough that they were able to write me rec letters. At my campus, UW-Madison, there are eleven sororities and I have recs to five. I was told through the greek gossip chain, that if I have rec's to some houses but not to others, the houses I lack a rec for won't even consider me, because I've shown a preferance to another house. Is this true? I hope you knowlegable women can clear this up for me. I thought rec letters just gave me a little push at the houses I had them for, not a punishment at those I didn't.
Thanks so much
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