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Originally posted by aephi alum
Very true. What I have a problem with, is a bride or groom standing up there on their wedding day thinking "eh, if things don't work out we'll just get divorced" - rather than thinking "if things aren't working out, we'll try to work them out." If you don't honestly believe that this is the one person you want to be with for the long haul, the person who will stick with you through thick and thin, then hold off on making that commitment. If problems come up later on, that's when you sit down and talk, go to marriage counseling, and ultimately, if there is no other solution, you get divorced.
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As usual, you hit it right on the head...this is exactly what I was referring to. I think the problem is that people tend to skip the "try to work things out" part and go straight for divorce. I don't believe people try as hard because divorce has become too easy.
To AKA2D...
...IMO, people like that have no business being married unless it's to other people that feel the same. I also think it's shameful for these people to bring kids into the mix when they know that in X-amount of years, they plan to pull them away from the family they've grown up with.