I agree, Leslie. The vows you take when you get married are for life. That's not to say that divorce is not an option if you've been married for a while and you're miserable, or your husband turns out to be a wife-beater, etc. But you shouldn't be standing up there in your tux or your white dress, saying "...to have and to hold from this day forward... until death do us part" while thinking "or until we get divorced".
At the end of the day, when a couple gets divorced, each member of the couple loses, and any children involved certainly lose. The only people who win are the lawyers.
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