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Old 01-15-2019, 09:18 PM
KSUViolet06 KSUViolet06 is offline
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Originally Posted by GreekOne View Post
Yes, the calls have been coming. There is an active thread on the IU parents FB page about recruitment. Several people commented this afternoon that their D's got the call. It appears these were due to SIP.
I don't necessarily think that SIP-ing is wrong.

If you know you are going to decline/no show your bid day if your bid doesn't read XYZ, it's sometimes for the best.


But I also don't think that PNMs know how matching works to know what the odds are of getting your #1 choice that you SIPed.

If you do, you need to be at least 90% sure that you are someone this chapter wants. Most of the time, you aren't. Or at least not someone they "first bid list" want.

A lot of SIP girls overestimate their desirability in a chapter's eyes.

The most desirable chapters are GOOD at making people feel at home, too. Which feeds into the "omg I am going to SIP because I have to be one." Not realizing that yes, they like you but they probably don't BID DAY like you.
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