[bcdphie]

Leslie, I agree with you - it seems like so many people nowadays are getting married knowing that there's an out if they need. I however, don't believe in this - for me if I had to get divorce, I would view that as a failure in my life. My grandparents have been married close to 60 years, my parents, aunts and uncles have all been married well over 30 years. Both my bf and I think it's horrible that some people go into marriage with the idea that they can get divorced - when I get married I will be thinking I want to be with this person forever, not, well if things go bust I can get out of this. Sometimes the option of divorce is better, but in this day and age it just seems like part of the cycle.