[CeresGirl]

I always say you get out what you put in. There was a time when I was a new member and I was debating whether to stay or go. All chapters have some problems and issues to work through, I also think that through sticking it out you'll find your place within your chapter. So there might be some drama from a group of girls, those girls might also be the louder ones in your chapter, I bet you there is a more mellow or professional group within where you act as a force of change for the betterment of your chapter.

Honestly, there were and still are multiple things that need to be changed in my own chapter and we have a strong group of women working towards that, is there still some drama? yes but I don't know a time in history where everything was peaceful especially when changes are being made. I take pride in how far my chapter has come over the years.

I know you might be feeling alone but do reach out towards your sisters and even other greek women because you are not alone. Always remember there is nothing wrong with being really close with members of other chapters, Find you people and if your having a hard day with your chapter at least you'll have people to turn to no matter their greek status.

As for the comment about removing your chapter name from your post because it might damage your reputation I disagree, I think that women who see flaws in their chapter and stay to work through them and bring the chapter higher are the women who I would want to lead because they are not quitters and they don't avoid the problems, but that's just my opinion.