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Old 08-23-2002, 11:18 AM
curlygirly curlygirly is offline
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Here ya go ladies....We had to sit in the room for about 2 hours again...but they finally let us leave!
I was invited back to 7, and this afternoon I will be returning to 6 houses:

AChiO
AEPhi
DPhiE
KKG
PhiMu
PiPhi

To clarify...the houses that I went to during Round 2, and will NOT be returning to are: Theta, ZTA, KD , and SigmaKappa.

I thought I had clicked with the ZTA girls, but I guess not. Theta was one of the last houses yesterday, and the girl I was paired with up did not click with me. She was very athletic, and I'm not....so we didn't really click well. I have to admit that I was so tired that I wasn't too focused.

Now KD....I was upset that I didn't see them on my invite list this morning. At the same time, I had a gut feeling that I wouldn't be seeing them. I really liked the house, and especially the Round 1 girl, but I just didn't really *click* with the Round 2 girl. We still had a good conversation, but it wasn't as great as the Round 1 girl. If only I had gotten the Round 1 girl during Round 2. Who knows....I just hate how it could depend on who rushes who. Plus, I think I'm at a disadvantage being a sophomore, and they might be stricter with sophomores GPAs. That's the feedback I'm getting from people I've spoken to.

Well just to update everyone on my 'greek or no greek' life question....I'm still not sure. I had good experiences at all the houses I'm returning to, but as far as getting a good vibe from the house as a whole, I don't know yet. There isn't one house that really sticks out in my mind. That is really the only thing motivating me to attend Round 3 today. I don't want any 'what ifs' later on...so I'm going to see for myself.

I've discussed this with various people already....if I don't find myself clicking with one house, then I'm going to withdraw. I'm not going to join a house that I semi-like just because I want to be in A sorority. I want to be in a house that I really, really like and feel comfortable in....not b/c I like it from the ones I have left! So I still haven't decided if greek life is for me...but maybe I'll know by tonight! A part of me just wants to sleep for the rest of the day (parties are from 2:30-10p, and they're not feeding us!), but the other part of me doesn't want to give up until I absolutely, positively know that this stuff isn't for me.

I hope I haven't offended anyone....and I want to thank you all for being so supportive. I'll try to update later tonight, if not tomorrow morning...depending on how tired I am!


Oh....on a side note...there are about 1200 girls who started during rush. I'm girl number #815...I'm curious to know how many girls have dropped!