[Dionysus]

I guess my situation is a little more complicated. If recruitment turns out the way we expected, we would have at least two littles and at most 4 littles. If we would to have only one little, I think it is best we hand pick. However, IMO if you have several littles, I can see these "groups"
getting TOO close, causing a division within a chapter. We don't need that, nothing will destroy a chapter more, we already have a very small chapter.

If we pick our littles randomly, we will get acquinted with people who we normally wouldn't.
However that can cause tension if the personalities and backgrounds are too different, as 33girl said.

So I guess the mutual selection process would be best. But, we don't know how to do that exactly.