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She will be at The University of Nebraska-Lincoln. I have heard it is pretty competitive, but nothing like SEC. I heard last year around 1100 went through and 600 pledged. Grade cut offs are extremely high for many of the houses -- I've heard 3.5, which seems nuts. I see her in a house with smart, maybe a bit nerdy type of girls. The stereotypical "barbie type" screaming sorority girl is not her thing and that would not impress her. I know all the houses sing/chant - that will be a turn off for her.

I should add that the majority of the girls who get don't get bids drop from the process if they get cut from a house they want. I have even heard that some girls sign up for recruitment just so they can move in early, when they don't really have much of an intention of pledging. Still, I don't think it's an easy process there.