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Something I know about...
I've been in one for almost 2.5 years. By the time I started my relationship, I was already in college, which is pretty different from your situation. There was no way that I was about to give up any of my independence--there haven't been too many Saturday nights spent sitting at home crying 'cause my boy's not around. Which doesn't mean that I don't miss him. We see each other about once a month, and if all goes well, we'll be together for good later on next month!
Anyway, my best advice is to "live it up". That doesn't mean to hook up with every Tom, Dick, or Harry, but to enjoy yourself. Try things you normally wouldn't try. Do well in school. Go out a lot. Take advantage of your time in college. If it doesn't work out, you won't have the feeling that you've wasted that first semester, year, or whatever pining after him.
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