Ninjabunny--I'm so sorry to hear about how it turned out. But don't give up! You could always rush again. Your at Cal right? I'm sure if you keep a positive up beat attitude you'll be invited to the chapter you want! Also, your bf, he's a fraternity member, he'll never understand what it's like to be a sorority member.
Don't let him get to you!
DGPledge--which campus are you at?
I'm guessing not SD because I've never heard of any rush lasting 8 days here.