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Originally posted by Hootie:
I hope what I'm about to write will help ya out a bit too!
Sometimes after recruitment, some chapters choose to kill people with kindness by still saying hello to those who didn't choose their chapter. I'm not necessarily saying that's what this one chapter is doing, but I've seen it happen.
Just because you didn't join doesn't mean you can't be friends with those men.
Personally I had doubts but mine were of even staying in. I didn't want to join another sorority. I just had doubts that I belonged and that I fit in. But then again, as a freshman I had other problems. ALL my friends went away to school and I didn't...I was the only one of my friends to go greek and I got crap about it...stuff like that. But finally I realized that I needed to make the effort because no one was going to force me to do stuff.
I hope things go better and that you can find the answers to your questions!
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I thought about that too, but that is not the issue. Regardless of what they do, I feel guilty. And I’m constantly thinking about this other house. When I talk to people and tell them that I am a pledge of KA I always mention that I almost went Phi Psi (and not in a sarcastic rude way, I say it with pride like it’s a honor).