hopefulgreek,
First, Congratulations on your invites! You have absolutely wonderful chapters to see so if I were you I'd be thrilled! Love to see that Alpha Delta Pi is on your list--yeah!!
As for the tent talk that you are experiencing, it makes me fume. Those pnms who say pejorative things about the houses to other pnms really, really don't know what they are talking about. In addition I always tend to question their motivations in going through recruitment, it seems to me they're simply looking for letters and a party. My advice to you is to stay away altogether and if that's not possible, change the subject, you can always mention how hot it is or how much your feet are hurting.
Okay enough of my lecturing about tent talk. Hopefulgreek you are doing so well, I'm so happy for you. Keep your heart open and you'll definitely find your place!
Good luck and God Bless,
violets
