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OMG, I thought this only happened at my alma mater. Last semester, we had a legacy going through, and said legacy texted our recruitment VP the night before pref and said, "please don't invite me back to your party. you're wasting a spot with me, because I found my home somewhere else." Shocked is all I can say. But since our lists were submitted the day before, she was already invited. And of course, she was at preference. As a legacy that made it to preference, she had to be first on our bid list. Next day we got our list of women, and she was on it...i was like, this should be interesting! She got to bid day, received her bid, and promptly burst into tears saying this couldn't be right, because XYZ had promised her a bid. Karma is a bitch.