This reminds me of a friend of mine. When she went through "Rush" as it was in days of the last century, she was asked by a sister that was rushing her, "Can you see yourself here?" My friend replied "No." She said the sister ask a question and she replied.
When I ask her why she answered that way, her reply was that it was a long week, she was worn out, no one had ask for her opinion. When ask for her opinion she gave it.
Side note, she went on to join a group she liked. She said she did not ever ask a "rushee" if she could "see herself as a sister."