My best advice for you is this. Do you know any fellow freshman who are currently new initiates for the houses that you want? If you'll have friends on the inside next year they can help put in a good word for you when you try again. I just say this because most of the girls I know who got their top choice the second time around had a bit of an inside track sophomore year. Also, don't take rush too personally. These people only meet you for 10-15 minutes at a time which is barely enough to get a decent impression. Sometimes people just fall through the cracks of an imperfect system. It doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you.
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