I know it's a tradition and just plain more expedient when 1000+ girls are receiving bids, but I've always thought the concept of accepting bids in such a public setting was barbaric. If you were super PNM or know where you're going (only had one pref) & have had time to prepare, it's fine. If you are unsure of the choice you made or where you're going, yikes. To be able to vent and cry with your rho gam before you face everyone seems like it would go a long way toward acceptance and making the best of your lot.
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