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Originally Posted by nydolphin
I've seen this many times!! People on campus hype up the top chapters and talk down on the "lower tier" houses.. But there are phenomenal women in each house!
I hope she makes an effort to get to know her pledge class and older sisters. When both sides make an effort to get to know each other, she's bound to find her best friends.
Also, she is going to be a collegiate sorority member for 4 years max- and an alumna for so many! I actually had a little more fun as an alumna since I lived in the big cities.
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This.
Plus, older sisters will graduate and a new class will come in during the next round of recruitment. Chapters turn over and change quickly, and next time, she'll be on the other side of recruitment and will have a say as to who gets to be in the chapter.
And again, nothing says she can't have friends in other sororities! That's one of the other great things after you graduate - I find that I've made so many friends who don't wear my letters. In school, there can be a lot of division, but afterward, you don't really care. You end up meeting sorority women everywhere, and you get excited when you see ANY letters. And even though you're not sisters, you're all sorority women, and you "get it".
In addition to the thread that ComradesTrue already posted...
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Originally Posted by ComradesTrue
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... I would also encourage you and your daughter to read through these threads. We're all sorority women, and all sororities have great things to offer.
http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...ad.php?t=37621
http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...ad.php?t=87973
http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...ad.php?t=21716