[33girl]

She is NEVER going to be happy in the group she got as long as she is focusing more attention on the group she didn't get. Put it to her like this: imagine a guy asked you to the prom, you accepted, and then spent the whole time talking to another guy. That's what she is doing. No one said you can't have friends in other sororities. But now is the time when she should be getting to know the girls in HER sorority. The girls in the other group, especially if they're upperclasmen, should back off and let her do this as well.