I don't know what others might say but I would turn this around 180 degrees.What is it about her that made THEM want her? Made THEM love her? Made THEM think she could contribute something special to THEIR chapter? Made THEM put her high enough on THEIR list? What was so special about her to THEM? And what should she do to honor that? Love takes time. She should focus on getting to know them enough to like them and get to know them.
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